We do not condone sex crimes or sex offenses. They are criminal actions deserving of punishment. Sex crimes are exceptionally harmful and traumatic. Victims often suffer greatly and deal with a lot of emotional turmoil. There’s no minimizing that, we know how traumatic it is. There’s no excuse for harming…
Inadvertent Self Sabotaging
Today, I find myself reflecting on a topic that has haunted me and many others who have experienced severe childhood trauma and subsequently developed PTSD – the inadvertent sabotage of relationships out of fear. It’s a painful truth that has affected my life in profound ways, and I believe it’s…
Finding a Job
Finding a job as a registered sex offender can be challenging, but there are resources and programs available to help with re-entry into the workforce. Here’s a step-by-step guide that includes information about re-entry programs: 1. **Compliance with Legal Requirements:** – Ensure that you are in full compliance with all…
New Life for Old Blankets
One of the reasons I decided to start this website/blog is to be able to release the thoughts from my head out in to the world. When an important person in your life happens to be a Registered Sex Offender, there are a lot of things that run though your…
Making More Bad Guys
Through some volunteer work I was doing, I met a man who violently shook and killed his own child. He had no remorse. After 15 years in prison, his answer to “Why did you do it?” was, “He wouldn’t f*cking shut up.” Yet, there he stood, with only 6 months…